Tuesday, September 01, 2009
♥ iPhone!
Yes! Mummy finally allow me to buy iPhone le! After weeks of pestering =X hahahahahahas!
Well, I have my secret technique to persuading... lols! afterall, I study psychology de mahs... hahahahas! joking la. =D
Deep gratitude to Pamela for helping me to pre-order the phone. =D 谢谢!
Deeper gratitude to Mummy for buying me the phone =D 谢谢谢!
Anyways.... Looking forward to the phone! and this is going to be my first time having the same phone with Pamela!! wakakakakakakakas! very excited!
Next, I wanna tell a story.
Does everyone know? How important our mummy is to us? I don't understand why some children hate their mother... or blame their mother for being naggy, not open-minded.. blah blah blah. they just got around complaining about their mother's faults... and never ever cross their mind that how Great their mother is...
U know I've just realised that mother is the best person on earth!
1 word description: Selfless.
Our mum don't owe us anything!! Why do they still want to make the effort and time to care? Because they are SELFLESS!
So just stop complaining about ur mum. and think from her point of view?
1. "My mum is just so naggy!"
Ur mum is being naggy because she cares about u. I'm sure ur mum also don't like to be a naggy mother, nor she wants to waste the effort and saliva on nagging. But, because she cares about u so much that she puts in enough effort to be naggy. She wants u to know the consequences before u make a mistake. She know that u will be complaining about her naggy-ness. But she just don't care about dignity anymore. She only care about YOU!
Solution: Open up ur ears. Listen to what she says. Its through her experience. And learn from her experience. Try to accept her idea. And DO NOT force her to accept ur idea. Try the other way round! I'm pretty sure that if u accept her idea, u will receive less harm. But if u force her to accept ur idea, u will then have to face whatever consequences u have to face.
2. "I wished my mum is more open-minded."
Ur mum IS open-minded. but she is just being protective of u therefore she "close" her mind. Do u know that? She wants to protect u from all the dangers and avoid the possible harm u will inflict. Do u think she really like being "close-minded"? the answer is: NO! she don't like to. but she has to. so that u will be protected.
Solution: Wait till u are old enough, independent enough, and u will easily get around the ideas. How old is considered old? How independent is considered independent? 21 yrs old... IS NOT CONSIDERED OLD!!! well, maybe after u have left school, and acquire few yrs of full-time experience.... =D I would say.. this is old and independent. =D
Before I end this post, I will like to tell u a little story (quoted from a friend whom told me this story a few weeks ago).
There are 5 animals: Peacock, Rat, Elephant, Monkey and Dog. U were walking in a jungle. And all of a sudden, there is a Lion up infront about to eat u up! For protection, which animal u will give up first?
Most people will choose to give up Peacock.
But I would say, the last to give up is the Peacock. This is because, the peacock needs the most protection.
Eg. Mouse can hide. Monkey can climb. Elephant is huge. Dog can run/swim/bite. But Peacock can do nothing! In other words, is the weakest. Yet, it needs the most protection. By keeping the Peacock next to u, u can protect the Peacock!
Morale of the story: Try to think from the others point of view. And try to accept their needs. =D
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